When exactly did it become presumed that we’d have children we didn’t raise? I am curious. When I became a mother, I accepted the hardest job I’ve ever had. Not only do I have to care for my dependent(s), but I have to respond to questions like “what do you do?” while my toddler runs out the door. I’ve traded in my high-wage jobs for low-paid labor in an effort to keep my people close by. I’ve learned how to do the equivalent of two…